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A superiority complex is a psychological disorder in which the affected individual experiences an exaggerated feeling of self-importance. He or she feels superior to other people and displays a general disregard for the thoughts of others. Individuals with a superiority complex often exhibit a sense of grandiosity. They typically maintain a feeling that they are better or more important than other people, and often fail to take the opinions or desires of others seriously. This disorder may also be referred to as narcissism or megalomania.

Jealousy is a complex emotion that encompasses many different kinds of feelings that range from fear of abandonment to rage to humiliation. Jealousy can strike both men and women when they perceive a third-party threat to a valued relationship, it can be a problem among siblings competing for parental attention, or envy for a wealthier more successful friend. Jealously usually does more harm than good to relationships, and can create relationship conflict and violence. Envy occurs when we lack a desired attribute enjoyed by another.Jealousy occurs when something we already possess (usually a special relationship) is threatened by a third person Envy is a two-person situation whereas jealousy is a three-person situation. Envy is a reaction to lacking something. Jealousy is a reaction to the threat of losing something (usually someone).

Envy, as unpleasant as it can be, usually doesn’t contain a sense of betrayal and resultant outrage, for example. Jealousy need not contain an acute sense of inferiority (if the rival is not enviable).

Haters and jealous types want you to fail. They are the people who say that something can never happen, that things are impossible, that you’re not clever or good enough or that nobody has ever managed to do what you’re trying to do, so who do you think you are, and so forth. Use their barbs to power your determination even more; think about their spineless attitude to life and how they fail to see that it’s effort and determination that make all the difference, not some anointed “born-with-it” miracle powers. Their taunts should make you want to do even better and prove them wrong by succeeding. And remember, success is defined by you, not by others.

People who hate and act jealous are one of life’s constants. Sadly for such persons, life is one huge battlefield, filled with traps and demons. Their way of coping with this skewed picture is to send forth their defensive hate monsters, to ward off the dangers they’ve conjured for themselves. And there is nothing more such people fear than someone who represents all the things they wish they were or had themselves.

  • Realize for your own sense of well-being that this is not personal to you; it’s all about them and what is missing inside of them.
  • Understand that their lack of self-competence is driving them to take cheap shots at you because they see something in you that they want but can’t have, usually because they lack the discipline to put in effort or to try harder.
  • Satisfaction will be temporarily gained if they can make you cry, lose your temper or be visibly distressed in front of them
  • Haters and jealous types want you to fail. They are the people who say that something can never happen, that things are impossible, that you’re not clever or good enough or that nobody has ever managed to do what you’re trying to do, so who do you think you are, and so forth. Use their barbs to power your determination even more; think about their spineless attitude to life and how they fail to see that it’s effort and determination that make all the difference, not some anointed “born-with-it” miracle powers. Their taunts should make you want to do even better and prove them wrong by succeeding.
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